A male  historic period 36-forty, *risport1984 writes: My girlfriend is a nurse practioner student and I'g struggling to become used to a few things. When she test on the teaching patient and told me nearly how she palpated the penis information technology was a chip bad-mannered. Merely recently, during her clinicals (sort of shadowing a doctor/NP), the patient immune her to stay in the room when the doc examined the guy's penis and then she had the opportunity to palpate it. She chosen me on her fashion habitation from clinical and said "guess what I got to do today". I know she's seen plenty of penises during her few years as a registered nurse only her excitement is a bit awkward for me. I am comfy with my size so information technology's not me worried about how I stack up. I think it is more her excitement which I promise is just because doing those types of exams is new. She's told me that it'southward clinical (which I get), I think I just don't desire her to see mine as "clinical". Any thoughts/experiences from nurses? View related questions: her ex Reply to this Question
Share | Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add together your answer to this question! A female reader, chigirl +, writes (23 April 2015):
 Hehe, this reminds me nigh one of my last days at the infirmary ward. There was one female doctor who I used to be scared of, because she always seemed so angry and was always telling people off for not doing what she meant they were supposed to. 1 solar day she came into the back room where I was sitting and told the nurses about her latest visit to a certain patient. Manifestly this patient had some problems with his balls, merely wouldn't allow the dr. touch him or even see it, lol. Whereupon this doctor, blunt as she was, almost told him off for information technology and tried to tell him it was easy to ready and she could do it right abroad. All the same the patient refused. I had to hide a smirk, hehe, because I can't imagine what patient would exist comfy with this brute of a woman handling his privates. Merely she was an first-class doctor, if merely the patient would take been able to relax in her presence. PS. As for people having difficult ons at inappropriate times, information technology DOES happen. An erection is non and so much under the control of the listen as yous might think, not for everyone. Brushing up against someone on the charabanc might be all information technology takes for some. Seeing a bare shoulder might be all it takes for others. Doesn't mean they want to accept sexual activity with that person, oh no, they don't, but the body reacts in its own way. It'south not because they are exhibitionist. I recall many Americans take issues relating to the body because of the negative view a naked body has in your culture. A naked and natural body is seen as something negative, or obscene, and not like the well-nigh natural thing in the globe. Hence everything relating to the body becomes a mystery, or something to be grossed out well-nigh, and merely seeing someones privates becomes a large deal. I Norway all the kids shower together later on gym classes (girls and boys separate, but in big common shower rooms). It is not unusual for parents to be naked around their children either. In public baths, there's the aforementioned arrangement of common showers, so you get to run into all sorts of bodies and of all ages. We have several nudists, who may have their ain beaches and camps, but who also but found themselves where they want. Just terminal year I went swimming and didn't even realize at offset that there were but naked people around me. Then, try to shift your focus a flake. A naked body, or a mans penis, is not the big whoop. It's about equally interesting as seeing a naked foot. | | <-- Charge per unit this answer | A female reader, like I see information technology +, writes (23 April 2015):
 I'm not a nurse or anywhere nearly i, simply part of my job includes emergency medical assistance to people who may or may not exist wearing all their clothes when they (have a eye attack, accept a stroke, autumn in the bathroom and demand help getting upwardly, are dumb past alcohol or drugs to the extent that a family member dials 911, you name it.) Or they may take an injury that REQUIRES the removal of their clothing for further assessment. I have seen quite a few penises (and a comparable number of vaginas) belonging to patients of all ages, pediatric to 90s. Can't say I have compared whatever penis seen in the field to my current partner (or any partner I've had in the past.) Allow's be honest, the average flaccid penis is not that aesthetically enticing to begin with - but over and in a higher place that, I run across the packages in question in the context of a demand for medical aid, as does your girlfriend. Providing the necessary medical care is the focus for me, as I'm sure information technology is for her. I don't think yous have anything to worry about. Hope this helps! Best wishes. ............................... A female reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2015):
 Maybe yous might want to rethink dating a person working in the medical field as it's so confusing and difficult for you? "I guess it's hard for me to relate to the thought of seeing the opposite sex's genitals as only clinical." It appears that's what you lot will take to piece of work on. If you tin can't find a way to relate to that then I guess yous'll demand to find a girlfriend who is not an creative person, a nurse, a nurse practitioner, a PA, a md, a funeral managing director, a nudist or a mother (they become to alter diapers). ............................... A male person reader, Trisport1984 +, writes (23 April 2015):
Trisport1984 is verified equally beingness by the original poster of the question That's funny yous say that about the erection. I've never come close to getting ane during my concrete (mind yous it is a male doctor). I also had a scrub at a Korean bath business firm (if you don't know what that is get watch Conan'due south experience on YouTube) two weeks ago and you are basically on display and beingness touched for thirty minutes. My girlfriend asked if I got an erection and I didn't come close to getting one (again, it was a male scrubbing me and so mayhap that had something to practice with it). When I was looking for a place to post this question there were posts about guys getting full erections during exams but I am not sure how honest those guys are and, if they are honest, I'm assuming they are exhibitionists that are few and far betwixt. ............................... A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2015): HiWomen are generally non the same as men in this way. Information technology's well known that males are turned on mainly via visual stimuli of naked women. Women are not the same. No woman that I know finds the male naked trunk a turn on. This is why during a strip show where a adult female is stripping, the men are fairly placidity, it'south serious to them, they want to save what they're seeing for when they might savour thinking about it once again...If women go to a male strip show, it'south treated as a huge laugh. Women are screaming with laughter, it's taken as a joke. Every bit I said not ane woman I know is turned on by the naked male body. In fact, the reverse is truthful. A romantic novelist in one case said that men should keep their uniforms and medals on ( this was a while agone) when they make dearest as a woman would exist far more turned on by this, than by having them naked. What turns women on visually amongst the women that I know and accept talked to, including myself, is hair at the dorsum of the head just touching the collar, a squeamish pair of arms or eyes. A sexy voice, smelling adept and well dressed (whatever that estimation means to the private). Something that men don't seem to sympathize is that nosotros're not like them in this way. My ex used to moving ridge his erect penis at me and I would just call back 'What?' He must take thought I'd be turned on by looking at it like he would be if I did the female equivalent. Not true, nosotros are usually more subtle than that. When your girlfriend said 'Guess what I did today?' I think she was winding you lot upward cos we know how men think. Trust me, she will not be constantly turned on past strange men'due south body parts. ............................... A female reader, chigirl +, writes (22 April 2015):
I don't think yous should worry about guys getting an erection because of her. I am sure she's gorgeous, but imagine yourself being so ill you demand to be in a hospital, and having some stranger grope your privates. Very often with other nurses/doctors watching. And with plastic gloves. Uh, no, that'due south non every mans fantasy. So I wouldn't worry if I were y'all. ............................... A male person reader, Trisport1984 +, writes (22 April 2015):
Trisport1984 is verified as beingness by the original poster of the question I appreciate the communication thus far. Regarding the response about whether "I get it", I meant that I've heard that earlier and I do believe them. My feelings of awkwardness are for me to feel, not for me to communicate. I want to exist at that place then she can exist excited (I am so proud of her and what she's accomplishing and so would never desire to diminish that with my insecurities). That said, is it inappropriate for me to feel bad-mannered? I guess it's hard for me to relate to the idea of seeing the opposite sex's genitals every bit only clinical. Information technology's funny though considering I reassure myself that it is clinical and then recall, "look, I don't want her to only look at my penis as clinical". I dread the solar day when she tells me how a guy got an erection but know it's coming because I am lucky to exist dating a very attractive girl. | | <-- Charge per unit this respond | ............................... A female person reader, chigirl +, writes (22 April 2015):
Im non a nurse, but I can assure y'all that she can distinguish betwixt handling a penis in a clinical and professional fashion, and handling her boyfriends penis when getting hot and heavy. I will as well remind you that I don't know a single female person who is turned on by a mans penis. Regardless of who that penis belongs to or how big it is. A penis in itself is not a turn on. What turns her on is the style she feels about you, the way you lot touch her, the way you lot look at her, things like that. Not merely seeing a penis. Y'all say you become it, that y'all empathize, merely I don't think you do. You have heard information technology, you are trying to grasp the concept, but not having been in that situation yourself, y'all can't actually empathise information technology. Hence your questioning it, which I think is only natural. You question information technology, because you don't really get information technology. I worked at a ward in a hospital where they performed anal examinations. I asked myself a similar question to yours: how practice the doctors put fingers up a strangers but and not be weirded out? The respond is: you get used to it! A friend who studies medicine told me they regularly do these tests on fellow students too (so non only on strangers). It becomes a normal part of your twenty-four hours, and you treat information technology not as a "butt", but as a clinical procedure. Just like looking at teeth if you're a dentist. | | <-- Charge per unit this answer | ............................... A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 April 2015):
 Hither'south what I accept done, under the same circumstances: Have reward of her postal service-shift (post-clinic) excitement... and become her to await at YOUR "Mr Happy" through a magnifying glass.... I've done this, and information technology's worked EVERY TIME!!!! Good luck.... ............................... A female reader, Abella +, writes (22 April 2015):
 She'due south your girlfriend and partners when they are happy want to share their happiness with their honey. She trusted that you would be as excited every bit her about her progression in the things she is learning. To her, when examining a patient/customer and then she is mentally going through a checklist of what is OK and what is non, how does the patient/client seem. That is her professional life. The patient on the bed is a project to set up and then move on. Not much glamour in it when you realise how many charts she has to read or write upwards. How many tests done that must be recorded in the notes. All the in a higher place is nearly taking intendance of business concern. It'southward different for her when she is with yous. yous are a friend and and so and so much more than that. you are her confidante, her caring partner. She can (or should exist able to)confide in each other and share many decisions. Y'all are as well the one who wants to be with, and vice a versa Merely accept that is was all about speaking to you as presently as she could share her achievement with you lot. She trusts you. ............................... A female reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 April 2015):
 She was excited over a new procedure not a new penis. If she delivered a baby for the first time it would exist a similar reaction. It'south HER JOB.... ............................... A female person reader, Honeypie + ♥ , writes (22 April 2015):
 Yous know I recollect information technology's akin to a male person OBGYN/GYN/Doctor/Nurse/PA having to expect at vaginas all day. Information technology's a body part. That is all. ............................... | 
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